If $B \leq P$ and some $g \in BwB$ lies in $P$, then the whole Bruhat cell $BwB$ is contained in $P$. Proof: factor $g$ in $BnB$ form, deduce $n \in P$, then any other lift $n'$ of $w$ differs from $n$ by a $T \subseteq B \subseteq P$ element.
If every simple cell $BsB$ for $s \in S'$ is contained in $P$, and $B \leq P$, then every $N$-lift $n$ of any $w \in W_{S'}$ lies in $P$. Proof by induction on a reduced expression of $w$ in the simple reflections of $S'$.
$P_{S'} \subseteq P$ whenever $B \leq P$ and every simple cell $BsB$ for $s \in S'$
is in $P$: combine N_rep_mem_P_of_parabolicW with the $BwB$ factorization.
Concrete consequence of axiom BN3: for each simple reflection $s$ there exist $x, y \in BsB$ with $x^{-1} y \in BsB$. Uses the BN-pair axiom that some $b_0 \in B$ has $n_s b_0 n_s^{-1} \notin B$, hence the product $(n_s)^{-1} (b_0 n_s^{-1})$ produces an element living in $BsB$ rather than collapsing to $B$.
Reverse direction of the classification of subgroups over $B$. If $BwB \subseteq P$
(with $B \leq P$), then $w \in W_{S'}$ where $S' = \{s : BsB \subseteq P\}$. Proof by strong
induction on $\ell(w)$: pick a right descent $s$, observe that $BsB \subseteq P$ via
bn3_gives_element_in_BsB and cell_sub_of_mem, then deduce $B(ws)B \subseteq P$ and
apply the induction hypothesis to $ws$.
Classification of subgroups containing $B$ (Bourbaki §IV.2.6, Theorem 3). Every
subgroup $P \leq G$ with $B \leq P$ equals the standard parabolic $P_{S'}$ where
$S' = \{s \in S : BsB \subseteq P\}$. Combines cell_sub_of_mem,
w_mem_parabolicW_of_cell_sub, and standardParabolic_sub.